Fun and Hard Weekend

On Saturday we had some friends over that we only get to see a few times a year. It was fun we had my Alfredo Lasagna, and Chocolate Chip Cookies, and my friend brought chesse pastries, and salad. It was all good. Then we watched The Longest Yard, it was cute, but had alot of Adult language and stuff in it. Then we played Poker and talked till 1 am. Haven't done that in a long time. It was nice. So I was in a good mood. Then Sunday came. Ejay got up with the kids, cause he got to bed earlier then I did Saturday, cause Brenden woke up and I stayed up with him till almost 3 am. Anyway, they got up Sunday around 7 and at about 8 Ejay start hollaring for me to get up, cause the kids were driving him nuts. Anyway, the kids were crazy, hyper(even after we went out to play) and grumpy all day long. Which by 1 pm I had a migraine so bad I had to take some migraine excedrin and go lay down, I didn't wake up till 430pm, and I still had a slight headache. And Ejay had one too. It was funky. Then around dinner we all started feeling better. After dinner we put up the Christmas tree. It was funny, Brenden was putting the ornaments on the tree, every time he got one on, Bella would walk over, take it off, and put it back in the box, it was so funny. But we managed to get it up, and after the kids went to bed, I wrapped all the presents we had got so far, and started making out my Christmas Cards. I am determined not to be a last minute person this year.
Finally figured out what the awful smell in Brenden's toy room is. I have already Shampooed the carpet twice, and put a pet deoderizer on it. Brenden has been Peeing in the floor when he is mad. It is a new part of his fits he throws when he is in trouble and doesn't want to go to time out or get a spanking, Ejay caught him last night and made him help clean it up, then he got a spanking and had to go to bed. I don't know what to do, it seems whatever I try doesn't work, spanking, time outs, taking toys away, focusing, whatever. Can't get anything that works steadily. Hopefully this new technique I saw on TV will work. It's for children who are Autistic, or who have severe ADHD, it's a board that has the days activities on it, and when one activity has been done, you take it off the board, it's to make it more strutured, so am starting it today, and so far is going ok. Will blog some more later.